RESPECT – THE PRELUDE TO PEACE
By Frank Deaver
Rotary Club of Tuscaloosa, Alabama USA
 

     Peace is such a fragile commodity.  It is far more than the absence of war.  Intense fighting can go on for months or years without a declared state of war.  On the other hand, a state of war can exist indefinitely with no actual combat.

     Then how may we more accurately define peace?  Peace, reduced to a single word, is respect.  Respect for the humanity of all people.  Respect for property and possessions.  Respect for beliefs contrary to our own.  Respect.

     Martin Luther King compared modern society to a great world house, in which, he said, we have no alternative but to live together – black and white, Easterner and Westerner, Gentile and Jew, Catholic and Protestant, Moslem and Hindu.  “Because we can never again live apart,” he said, “we must learn somehow to live with each other in peace.”

     Rotary District 2450 is perhaps the most multi-cultural district in the Rotary world, with clubs in nine countries and on three continents.  Their “world house” of 126 clubs includes diversity of geography, ethnicity, language, and religion.  Yet, District Governor (2005-06) John C. Strongylos says their more than 4000 Rotarians “live and work together” by “adhering to the principles of Rotary.”  He says this includes “mutual respect, tolerance, and consideration.”

     There is that word again – respect.  If Rotarians in the Middle East can rise above the conflicts that surround them, why cannot the rest of society learn to live together in peace?  Why does our world find it so difficult to embrace that elusive commodity, respect?

     Lack of respect, or hatred, is passed along from generation to generation.  Children are not born to hate; they learn to hate.  In the words of a song,

               You’ve got to be taught before it’s too late,
               Before you are six or seven or eight,
               To hate all the people your relatives hate.
               You’ve got to be carefully taught.
                    -- from the musical, South Pacific

     If in fact hatred is an attitude that is taught, then surely its counterpart lies in the teaching of respect.  The Fourth Object of Rotary calls for “the advancement of international understanding, goodwill, and peace.”  If there is to be peace in our time, what must be carefully taught is –here is that word again – respect.